Showing posts with label create. Show all posts
Showing posts with label create. Show all posts

Tuesday, February 1, 2011

Harness Your Point Of Attraction

By Dr Robert Anthony


"When you can embrace all of life, not holding onto anything
beyond its time and not avoiding it once its time has come, you
will know the meaning of Freedom." - Unknown

The dictionary defines Freedom as; "The quality or state of being
free; the absence of necessity, coercion or constraint in choice
or action; liberation from slavery or restraint or from the power
of another."

How would you define Freedom for yourself? It strikes me that much
of what the Secret of Deliberate Program teaches you is how to set
yourself free - free from your stories, free from your past, free
from "shoulds", free from need.

I talk repeatedly in the course about choice. You cannot control
the circumstances or people around you, but you can always choose
how you react to them. Much of what is difficult about difficult
situations, is not the situation itself, but how you react to it.
Have you ever made a situation worse by overreacting? What if you
had kept from getting knocked off balance by what was happening,
would that have changed anything?

The goal of Deliberate Creation is to be able to consciously set
your Point of Attraction. That means that how you feel is not
dependent upon external circumstances. It is not dependent upon
your mate doing the dishes or your child picking up his room or
your friend calling you or who wins the election. Your Point of
Attraction is determined solely by you, by what you believe, think,
expect and feel. No one and nothing else is ever to blame - ever.
No one makes you unhappy - you do that. No one can make you
happy - only you can do that. It's your choice - always.

When you can stay centered and balanced no matter what is going on
around you - when you can consciously choose instead of letting
circumstance dictate how you feel - then you have got ("groked"
for those of you who remember Heinlein's "Stranger in a Strange
Land") how to consciously create your life.

I think the quote above sums it up quite eloquently. If we are
truly letting all of life in, without judgment, without labels,
embracing all of it, not clutching at what is no longer ours nor
pushing away what is, then we truly are free.

As you go about your day today see in what ways you can set
yourself free.

Create Your future.

Books on Deliberate Creation:


The Amazing Power of Deliberate Intent: Living the Art of Allowing

Abraham's Teachings - The Law of Deliberate Creation, About the Law of Allowing, The Powerful Law of Attraction
Beyond Positive Thinking: A No-Nonsense Formula for Getting the Results You Want
Think Big

Tuesday, January 4, 2011

Attitude is Everything!

By Hannah du Plessis
If you want to be successful in life, there are three important areas you have to work on:

The Basics in your chosen field

People skills and 

Personal growth

When you focus on developing these three areas, success is inevitable. In the third area; Personal Growth, you will find that sooner or later you have to deal with the topic: Attitude. Just why is attitude so important for success? You just have to look at successful people to determine what they have in common. Yes, you guessed it: A positive attitude! Yet, there are many people who fail. Statistics tell us that 95% of new businesses fail in the first year.

Why is it so difficult to have a positive attitude? Here are possible reasons:

  • The society we live in is basically negative. Psychologists say that 96% of the average person’s conversations to himself are negative. For example: “I am stupid.”
  • As we grew up, we have been ridiculed by people we should trust, like our parents, teachers and friends. Examples: “You are not wearing that, are you?” “You look fat.” “Why don’t you act more like your brother/sister?”
  • We have been subject to unfair and unrealistic comparisons of experiences. Either one of your siblings experienced or achieved something and you were expected to do the same, or you saw a friend or colleague achieve something that you tried at and failed.
  • We confuse failure in life with failure in a project.
How do you fix your attitude?

  • Learn to say the right words
  • Read the right books
  • Listen to cd’s or tapes about the attitudes that need changing
  • Hang around positive people
  • Do the right things (going to a war movie is not the right thing)
Do the things that fix your attitude and it will change your beliefs. Beliefs are very powerful things. They control our behaviour. From our beliefs, we get our attitude. Our feelings come from our thoughts. If you want to change your behaviour, go back to your thoughts. Here it is again:

Your thoughts affect your feelings
Your feelings affect your attitudes
Your attitudes affect your beliefs
Your beliefs affect your behaviour

Attitudes that can help you:

  • Your attitude at the beginning of a task will affect the outcome more than anything else
  • Your attitude towards others determine their attitude towards you
  • You are where you are and what you are because of the dominating attitudes in your mind
  • Attitude is a choice
Which Attitude are you choosing today?

Get Motivated Today!

 Books on Attitude:


Attitude Is Everything: Change Your Attitude...and You Change Your Life! 


Attitude Is Everything for Success 


Attitude Is Everything (10 Rules for Staying Positive) 

Dr Robert Anthonys Advanced Formula For Total Success 

Beyond Positive Thinking: A No-Nonsense Formula for Getting the Results You Want